Oh Hellooooooooo

Hey little sister!

 I just read your post (I know I am sorry I totally suck), I know what you mean,

Life is scary and when you are a grown up it's so much harder to convince yourself to take risks...But I know you can do it!

I was just telling Joey last night that I was sorry for constantly talking about moving but I do it because I feel if I don't constantly talk about the things I want I will just get lazy and forget them...

Mom was saying some crazy "if you believe it it will happen" crap (I say crap because I really don't think that's how the world works and am a little scared because I know she does, oh well) but then read a pin this morning:

I think that's more how life works vs. the believe and it will happen stuff...

So basically what I am saying is all this stuff can be scary but...working towards the things you want even on the days it all seems hopeless doesn't have to be some "grand leap of faith" sort of thing, it can be re-writing the plan, or making a list, or just talking about it or even looking at studio apartments on pinterest for ideas...it may seem like all the little plans and lists hold you back and at times they might but sometimes that's all you can do, some days/weeks/months are too hard and overwhelming and you need some safety and comfort during those times planning isn't holding back it's keeping the dream/goal/idea alive!

Don't be discouraged, chin up, one foot in front of the other, big goals and lots of lists!

(OCD life motto...no really my list making is getting a bit insane)

ADVICE: 

Easy to give, hard to follow...

Luck to us both on this and I may try to post again this week since this is really just a response to your post.

I gotta go, byeeee